H.R. No. 1430


R E S O L U T I O N
WHEREAS, Elnora Mayeux Callegari, matriarch of a large and loving family, passed away on March 7, 2005, at the age of 87, in Cottonport, Louisiana, and her loss has left a void in the lives of all who knew and loved this revered mother, grandmother, and great-grandmother; and WHEREAS, Mrs. Callegari was born in Avoyelles Parish, Louisiana, on August 28, 1917, the youngest of six children; raised in the family home on the site of the former Norwood Plantation in Simmesport, Louisiana, she was brought up by her father, her brother, and her four sisters following the untimely death of her mother in 1922; she attended Moreauville Grammar School and graduated from Simmesport High School in 1933; and WHEREAS, For three years, this vibrant and intelligent lady studied education at Southeastern College in Hammond, Louisiana; before earning her degree, however, she married Jerome Preston Callegari, with whom she raised six sons and one daughter; she was preceded in death by her beloved husband, by her son, U.S. Air Force First Lieutenant Jerome P. Callegari, Jr., and by her daughter, Mary Callegari Cleland; and WHEREAS, Following the passing of her husband, and after raising their seven children, Mrs. Callegari returned to college to complete her degree; in 1976, at the age of 59, she earned a bachelor's degree in education from Louisiana College in Pineville, the same year that her seventh child graduated from college; and WHEREAS, Passionate about education, Mrs. Callegari taught elementary school and French at St. Mary's School, Cottonport Elementary School, and St. Joseph's High School; she taught school until the age of 77 and was adored by students and teachers alike; and WHEREAS, Mrs. Callegari was known as the faculty's friend, philosopher, and advisor on anything from raising children to humoring husbands or wives and often provided a sympathetic ear, a pat on the hand, and a word of encouragement when it was most needed; her students loved her and enjoyed learning French under her direction; she often wore a wide white spangled belt, which prompted the children to call her "Wonder Woman," a truly apt moniker for this gifted educator; and WHEREAS, Two of her famous sayings were, "There was a lot of water under the bridge" and "If you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say it"; her advice to young mothers about children could be summed up in the following quote: "Trust them, love them, understand them, and most of all, learn to roll with the punches."; and WHEREAS, Mrs. Callegari was immensely proud of the fact that each of her seven children graduated from college; her unwavering support for her offspring was evidenced through her active participation in the many extracurricular activities undertaken by her children; she cheered for her sons from the stands during untold football games and other athletic events and enthusiastically applauded after band performances, always encouraging her youngsters in their endeavors; and WHEREAS, Known by family members as "Hecky," a childhood nickname inspired by her mischievous and lively nature, Mrs. Callegari was called "Grandma Hecky" by her legion of grandchildren and great-grandchildren; and WHEREAS, Elnora Callegari was a devoted wife and mother who doted on her grandchildren and great-grandchildren, and although she is no longer with us, her spirit lives on in the memories of her loved ones and through the legacy of her children and their families; now, therefore, be it RESOLVED, That the House of Representatives of the 79th Texas Legislature hereby pay tribute to the life of Elnora Mayeux Callegari and extend deepest sympathy to the members of her family: to her sons, State Representative William A. Callegari and his wife, Ann; Stephen R. Callegari, Sr., and his wife, Iris; Michael J. Callegari and his wife, Peggy; Ralph L. Callegari and his wife, Debbie; and Richard M. Callegari and his wife, Lisa; to her 22 grandchildren and 30 great-grandchildren; and to the many other relatives and friends of this beloved woman; and, be it further RESOLVED, That an official copy of this resolution be prepared for her family and that when the Texas House of Representatives adjourns this day, it do so in memory of Elnora Mayeux Callegari. Wong ______________________________ Speaker of the House I certify that H.R. No. 1430 was unanimously adopted by a rising vote of the House on May 13, 2005. ______________________________ Chief Clerk of the House