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SENATE RESOLUTION NO. 929
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WHEREAS, The Senate of the State of Texas honors and |
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commemorates the life of Martin Donald, who died February 10, 2007, |
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at the age of 86; and |
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WHEREAS, Martin Donald was an exemplary man who touched |
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the hearts of countless people, and he was fittingly remembered |
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and celebrated in the following words by his grandson-in-law, |
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Rabbi Brian Strauss of Congregation Yeshurun in Houston: |
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Today, I stand before you as a rabbi to deliver |
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the eulogy of Martin Donald, the ultimate survivor, |
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a fighter, a man who had the tenacity and know-how |
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to successfully live the American dream. I also |
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stand before you today as a husband of one of his |
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grandchildren, to deliver the eulogy of Pappa. It |
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speaks volumes that to so many of us he was known as |
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Pappa. Because Pappa was the ideal family Patriarch, |
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a man of wisdom and generosity, whose tight bear |
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hugs symbolized the great love he showered on so |
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many of us. |
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Pappa always gave everything he could to |
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those he loved. He also paved the way for future |
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generations with his determination to make life |
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even better for those who would come after him. |
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I was blessed to be one of the recipients of his |
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legacy, a legacy that I proudly share with you |
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today. |
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Pappa's life began on May 2, 1920, when he was |
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born to Robert and Freida Dorffmann in Berlin, Germany. |
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Pappa had one younger sister, Erna. His dad was |
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involved in the textile industry. Through his |
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example, Pappa gained a great business sense which |
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would serve him well later in his life. There was a |
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large Dorffmann clan in Germany--uncles and aunts, |
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cousins. They were proud Jews and proud Germans. |
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Life was good for Pappa and his family. His parents |
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were Orthodox Jews who observed Shabbat and other |
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Jewish rituals and traditions. But they also loved |
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Germany, and his dad fought for the German Kaiser |
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during World War I. But everything changed when |
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Hitler came to power in 1933. |
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Pappa was forced to quit school and help the |
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family earn a living. So he got involved in the fur |
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trade, finding himself a mentor. |
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That mentor was a short German Jewish man named |
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Gustaf. Pappa had to learn quickly because when |
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Pappa did something wrong, Gustaf would stand on his |
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chair and hit Pappa on his head with his ruler. Many |
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of the family members who were dispersed throughout |
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Germany came to Berlin to support each other. But |
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things only got worse for Pappa and his family. |
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German Jews like Pappa's parents never thought |
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that something really terrible could ever happen to |
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them. That Hitler would pass on. Pappa saw what was |
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really happening. In January of 1939, he was able to |
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secure working papers to leave with his cousin Leo |
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for England. He was forced to leave the rest of his |
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family and was left on his own in a new country at |
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age 19. In England, through a mutual and eventual |
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lifelong friend, Netti Speigel, Pappa soon met |
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another refugee from Germany named Ann Speeseman. |
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They quickly became good friends. |
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Unfortunately, Pappa had to leave Ann and his |
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new life in London when the British, fearful of a |
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fifth column, rounded up many of the German men |
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(even some of the Jews) and sent them on prisoner |
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of war ships to Canada. Fights broke out every |
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day aboard ship between the Jews and Germans. |
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Fortunately, the British soon realized their |
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mistake and Pappa was shipped back to England two |
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months later with an apology. |
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It was then that he realized he had to do |
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something to help fight the Nazis, knowing his |
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parents were still in Germany. He enlisted in the |
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British army and, with his ability to speak both |
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English and German, he eventually became a warrant |
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officer in British Intelligence. He loved serving |
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in the army. Being on his own, he liked the structure |
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and discipline that army life provided. He landed |
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in Normandy shortly after D-Day. He had to change |
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his last name from Dorffmann to Donald to hide his |
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Jewish identity because of the fear of being caught |
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by the Germans. |
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He eventually went with his unit back to |
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Germany and was devastated by the atrocities he |
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witnessed at two concentration camps, including the |
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infamous Bergen-Belsen. After the war, he obtained |
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permission to go to Berlin to find out whether any of |
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his large family was still alive. Unfortunately, |
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all of his immediate family, including his parents, |
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sister, uncles, and cousins were all murdered in |
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concentration camps. In all, he lost over 40 family |
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members. |
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Later he was assigned to occupied Hamburg to |
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work on finding and interrogating German officers. |
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There, he became good friends with a top colonel |
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and he soon found himself as one of the few people |
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actually running occupied Hamburg. Through his hard |
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work they caught many former Nazi officers and |
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officials, including the former German Foreign |
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Minister, von Ribbentrop. |
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It was then that he was asked to reenlist in the |
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army. Not knowing what he should do, he looked for |
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advice from his friend Ann, who was still in London. |
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He wrote her letters asking her advice on whether he |
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should stay in the army or return to civilian life |
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in London. She advised him to come back; that he |
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couldn't stay in the army his entire life. Perhaps |
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she had other motives as well, because six months |
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later they were married. Their close friendship had |
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quickly become something more. |
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On June 15, 1947, they took the first step in |
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a journey that would last them 59 years together as |
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husband and wife. Throughout their marriage, their |
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respect and admiration grew year by year. They often |
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balanced each other well and were always there to |
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support each other and enjoy life to the fullest. |
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With a close friend, Pappa soon started a fur |
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business named Donald and Brooks. He was doing |
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well and they were beginning a new life together in |
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London. But they had to make another decision. It |
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had always been Ann's parents Mawtel and Sala's |
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dream to move to America. And so in November of 1947, |
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aboard the Queen Mary, Nana and Pappa came to |
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America to begin their American dream. |
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Throughout his life in America, Pappa often |
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said that there was no better country in the world |
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because America became the place they could fulfill |
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all of their worthy desires. Their American dream |
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began quickly when in May of 1948, on his 28th |
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birthday, Nana gave birth to their oldest child, |
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Florence. |
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Two years later, their second child, Mark, was |
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born. Life was not easy at the beginning of their |
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new life in America. They lived in a tiny apartment |
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and Pappa promised Nana that within the year they |
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would be out of that apartment. He kept his word, |
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and within the year they moved to a larger and nicer |
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apartment in Brooklyn. He started in the fur business, |
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working for his Uncle Mannie Wieser. Eventually, |
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he and his cousin Leon Dunnegar and his good friend |
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Sam Zor started their own fur business. |
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It was hard work. Every Sunday night he would |
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pack up his car and early Monday he would begin his |
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drive throughout the country selling his furs. |
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Eventually, business became very good in Texas. So |
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in 1960, they moved to Dallas. In Dallas, he started |
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the Elegant Furs Company. |
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After the fur business ended, with his friend |
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Bob Statman, he started a costume jewelry business. |
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Eventually, Pappa and Bob owned Dallas Woodcraft, |
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which manufactured picture frames and was a key |
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vendor for Don Carter's Home Interiors business. |
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Dallas Woodcraft was finally bought out by Home |
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Interiors and Pappa retired at age 60. Retirement |
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was not easy for Pappa. |
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The structure and discipline of work was |
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important to him. Despite his drive to earn a good |
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living for his family, he was always there for his |
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loving family. He had been cheated out of his family |
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by the Nazis, so he was determined not to be cheated |
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out of his family again. Family became his central |
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passion in his life. |
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When distant family members found their way |
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to America, he was there to help guide and support |
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them. He always went out of his way to keep in |
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touch. He would often call family members all over |
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the world. |
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He considered his many close friends he made in |
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Dallas his family as well. Pappa was strong-willed, |
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he had high expectations, he was a traditionalist, |
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he demanded respect, and his family always gave him |
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the respect he deserved. |
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He was also his children's first advisor. He |
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would often give his children his advice by helping |
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them work towards those decisions through his great |
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wisdom and insight on business, politics, and life |
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in general. He supported Florence in her politics |
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and Mark as a writer. He was the foundation for |
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their success. He was also there for his son-in-law, |
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Howard, and daughter-in-law, Esther, when they came |
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into his life. He thought of them as his children |
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and he loved them dearly. |
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They helped give him the great joy of six |
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grandchildren--Lisa, Todd, Staci, Adam, Max, and |
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Lilly. They too could always go to him with anything |
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they needed. He made them feel important and special |
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because he believed in them. He loved to give them |
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his huge bear hugs and kisses in the ear. |
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When they were children, Lisa, Todd, and Staci |
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would spend the night with Nana and Pappa every |
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Friday night. While there he would play and |
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interact with them. He loved to tell them stories |
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and jokes. He loved to swim and play games. He did |
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many of the same things with his younger grandchildren, |
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Adam, Max, and Lilly. He was their number one fan. |
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When Adam started a band with his friends, he |
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went to Pappa for some financial backing. Of course, |
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Pappa never turned anyone away and helped back the |
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band. So they "honored" him by naming their band |
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"The Rockin' Pappas." |
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He was at his grandchildren's sporting events, |
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graduations, weddings; at the births of his six |
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great-grandchildren, at every important moment in |
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their lives, he was there. |
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He was extremely generous and supportive to his |
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grandchildren, and in turn they all loved and adored |
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him. |
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He loved his six great-grandchildren as |
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well--Joshua, Noa, Ari, Ella, Sam, and Zachary. |
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If he saw Max, Lilly, and Joshua here today, he would |
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tell them they look as sharp as a matzoh ball. |
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(We're still trying to figure out what that means.) |
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Pappa not only had a passion for family but he |
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also had a zest for life. He loved to laugh and tell |
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stories. He enjoyed quiet moments outside bathing |
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in the sun and the tranquil moments at night outside |
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by his pool. |
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He loved his dogs, including Shepp, Ceaser, |
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Rex, and most recently Parker. |
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He enjoyed the entertainment side of life. He |
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had a passion for gin, tennis, and over the years got |
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involved in horse racing as a part-time owner. |
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He loved to gamble. Once he even went so far |
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as to tell his beloved wife that he had to extend a |
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business trip, but instead was making a side trip to |
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Las Vegas. When he returned home, Nana was so upset |
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with him that she chased him around the house with a |
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broom! |
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When he was gambling, we all wanted to make |
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sure we were next to him at the craps table because |
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when you were down on your luck, he would always |
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slide you some of his chips. He wanted you to feel |
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good and be a winner like him. |
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He and Nana traveled across the world to places |
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like Israel, Russia, and China. |
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He enjoyed good times with his close friends. |
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He became very close to his in-laws, Beedie and |
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Harry, even though they were complete cultural |
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opposites--Nana and Pappa were from Europe, |
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Beedie was from Georgia, and Harry was from |
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San Saba, Texas. |
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On his first visit to San Saba, Pappa was in a |
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world he had never seen before. But everyone loved |
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Pappa and he was soon wearing his first cowboy hat |
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and boots. It was a sight to see! |
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He was involved in the community. |
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Adolph Teitelbaum got him involved with an |
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organization called SCORE, where he relished |
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meeting with younger businessmen, giving them |
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his advice. He was an entrepreneur, and this |
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was his way of giving back. |
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Despite his experiences in Germany, Pappa |
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loved being Jewish. He was a proud Jew, and to him, |
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being a good Jew was being a good man. |
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He became a cofounder of the Dallas Holocaust |
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Museum. He was involved in its inception and it |
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became a very important place to him. He wanted |
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to make sure that the memories of those who were |
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murdered would always be preserved. |
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His home was a distinctly Jewish home, and |
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for his grandchildren, it represented the place to |
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celebrate the Jewish holidays. Hanukkah parties, |
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Rosh Hashanah dinners, Passover Seders . . . Nana |
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and Pappa's home helped define their Judaism. |
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I was blessed to see Pappa in his element at |
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some of those dinners. Surrounded by those he loved |
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the most, telling his stories, kissing us all, and |
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giving all of us the encouragement and love only |
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Pappa could give. |
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When I first met Lisa, she often told me that |
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her Pappa was always there for her. And I was |
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quickly blessed to see that Pappa was soon always |
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there for me. |
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When I gave my first sermons as a rabbinical |
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student, he would come to listen. When we went to |
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his vacation home in Florida, we would spend nights |
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out on the balcony as he shared more of his life |
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stories and wisdom with me. He would inspire me |
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again. |
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And when Lisa and I were first married, Pappa |
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was there to take us to Vegas! |
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There are three recent experiences I had with |
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him that I believe summarize his life. |
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Two years ago, his daughter, Florence, as |
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Senate Pro Tem, served as Governor of the Day for the |
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State of Texas. That day, Pappa, with his Nana at |
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his side, was able to see his daughter serving as |
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governor. Sixty-five years earlier, they were |
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shunned by the country they were born in, almost |
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losing their lives for being Jews. |
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But in America, they got to see their daughter |
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become governor. Not only had Nana and Pappa passed |
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on their Jewish heritage to their children, but they |
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had fulfilled the American dream. |
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Both of their children had done extremely well |
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in life. They had provided their children the |
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opportunities, given them the encouragement and |
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support they needed, so that now one of their |
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children could even rise to the highest levels of |
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government. |
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That morning, the entire Senate Chamber rose |
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to give Nana and Pappa a standing ovation. It was a |
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moment none of us will ever forget. |
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Last night, the President of the United States |
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called Florence to offer his condolences. Today the |
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Lieutenant Governor and members of the state House |
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and Senate are here. When Pappa fled for his life |
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from Germany in 1939, never could he imagine these |
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things. |
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There was another moment none of us would ever |
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forget. Last December, Pappa took his close family |
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to the Bahamas. He was so excited about that trip. |
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Yes, it was hard for Pappa to travel in his wheelchair. |
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But it would be a chance for him to have fun with |
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those he loved. |
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One night in the Bahamas, he sat in his |
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wheelchair at the craps table. He was soon on a |
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roll. He would lift himself out of his wheelchair, |
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put the chips down, and roll the dice. Girls at the |
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other end of the table were yelling "Go Pappa!" That |
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night, he won nearly $5,000 and he was Pappa once |
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again. Having fun, enjoying life surrounded by his |
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family. |
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Last May, we celebrated Pappa's 86th birthday |
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with a luncheon in his honor. One last time, Pappa |
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got to see his family and friends come honor him. |
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Many of us toasted and hugged Pappa that day. We |
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wanted to make sure that he knew how proud we were of |
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him and thankful for everything he had always given |
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to us. |
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That day he knew. Despite the discomfort he |
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was in, he was so grateful. He was so happy to say |
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thank you, I love you. |
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At that birthday luncheon, I mentioned that |
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according to Judaism, age 80 is considered the age |
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of strength. |
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Age 80 seems like a strange age to be called an |
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age of strength? |
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But it is considered an age of strength because |
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at 80 some are fortunate enough to be respected for |
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their great common sense and insight to life. Pappa |
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was certainly one of those people. |
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And in many ways, when he was 80 he was still |
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physically strong. |
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But soon after he turned 80, he began to lose |
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his physical strength. |
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The last several years were not easy. He was |
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often in and out of the hospital. He was in pain. |
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But many men could have not survived as long as he |
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did. But most men are not like Pappa. |
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He was blessed throughout his struggle to have |
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his caretakers and doctors, his children and his |
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grandchildren, and first and foremost, his loving |
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Ann at his side. |
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It was she that was there for him to the very |
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end as she had always been. She was there as his |
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security blanket, his first support and love. |
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Pappa was a man whose experiences make the |
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cost of his children's and grandchildren's lives |
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seem easy and simple. |
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But the reality is that he persevered |
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throughout his life so that his children and |
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grandchildren could live those relatively easy |
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lives. |
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The Nazis wanted to end his life. But they |
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could not stop Martin Donald. Despite their efforts, |
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he gave this world two children, six grandchildren, |
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and now six Jewish great-grandchildren and |
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counting. |
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Today, Hitler is rolling in his grave because |
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of men like Martin Donald who he could not stop. |
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Today, Pappa is reuniting with his parents and |
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sister in heaven, smiling at what he left in this |
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world. |
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Years ago, he would often tell his children |
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about the time when he was forced to say goodbye |
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to his mother. As he boarded the train to leave |
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Germany, his mother told him that she feared that |
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she would never see him again. |
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Unfortunately, she was correct. She never did |
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see him again. |
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And he would tell his children this story again |
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and again to emphasize to them the responsibility |
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they had to preserve their Jewish heritage they |
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would one day have to pass on themselves. |
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Pappa succeeded and now, because of the way he |
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and Nana raised them, they are also succeeding. And |
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so are their children. They are following the ways |
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of their Pappa. |
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Today, we lay to rest Martin Dorffmann, who |
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became Martin Donald, who became Pappa. |
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It would have been admirable enough for him to |
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have just been Martin Donald. Considering everything |
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he had experienced, if he would have come to America |
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and just built his successful business, that would |
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have been enough. |
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But he was more special than that. He became |
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a Pappa, a Patriarch and advisor, a man of great |
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generosity and love, a man with a passion for life, |
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family and helping those in need. |
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A man whose presence will live on for many |
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years to come because he became a Pappa. |
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Zikrono Livracha "May his memory be for a |
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blessing always." |
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And to his precious life, let us say Amen. |
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WHEREAS, An extraordinarily devoted husband, father, and |
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grandfather, he was beloved by his family and countless friends, |
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and he will long be remembered for his generous spirit, his keen |
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insight, his perseverance, and his zest for life; now, therefore, |
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be it |
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RESOLVED, That the Senate of the State of Texas, |
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80th Legislature, hereby extend sincere condolences to the |
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bereaved family of Martin Donald: his beloved wife of 59 years, |
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Ann Donald; his daughter, the Honorable Florence Shapiro; |
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his son, Mark Donald; and his six grandchildren and six |
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great-grandchildren; and, be it further |
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RESOLVED, That a copy of this Resolution be prepared for |
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the members of his family as an expression of deepest sympathy |
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from the Texas Senate, and that when the Senate adjourns this |
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day, it do so in memory of Martin Donald. |
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Zaffirini |
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Dewhurst, President of the Senate |
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President of the Senate |
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I hereby certify that the |
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above Resolution was adopted by |
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the Senate on May 2, 2007, by a |
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rising vote. |
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Secretary of the Senate |
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Member, Texas Senate |